قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

Spouse Challenge 13

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Of course, it is certain that these statements if They are used to make spouses interested in continuing their lives Otherwise, in the case of the decision to separate, I said in this case as well One can decide to separate in a calm state without Raised tensions. Change my suggested status to reach To relative calm and achieve new frontiers of power and competence You and it is enough that you with a little kindness and aspect and thinking Face different situations. Note that the issue of right and wrong has no role in changing situations Raising the issue of rights in a critical situation is helpful No, maybe it will ruin the situation even more. If you want a change Create a situation It should not matter to you who is right Let me give you an example: At noon on Ashura, Imam Hussein (AS) was completely right But having this right did not prevent the neck from being amputated. In all areas The right does not apply much. Maybe if you are right and wrong Go through many solutions that come to your mind. Repeat again There is no way to solve the crisis in the current situation at once does not have . We should only be slow about minor changes in the status quo Let's take action. Sometimes some methods say that we have to take the basic factors Note that this situation has been created. Please pay attention to The factors that make up the situation are the work of specialists. While we took We are currently in an unpleasant situation. So I'm analyzing Existing hypotheses I have suggested perhaps the most practical solution. You In the critical moments of the current situation, it is not necessary to think about the basic factors Keep yourself busy. Better a poor horse than no horse at all Find out and be aware of the creature and then master it with composure and composure Towards doing things that can little by little make the status quo Decide to change and act slowly and with confidence . Let me remind you that your logic, and not at all Logically can not change the status quo. The only way, find the way True to change the status quo. But if you follow logic Miss yourself or basically any rational go precious opportunities You will give. About the need for successive, slow and continuous changes You may need your past experiences, but more work than experience In such cases, your awareness that if you are aware, you can From the signs that are found in the situation, the next way to change continues


Spouse Challenge 12

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You try the current situation First adjust and then in relative calm the decision to separate Express yourself or listen to her decision to separate In the nervous state and difficulty of the current situation Your party will assume your decision out of anger And does not understand it. But if in a better position Tell him your decision, he will understand more Or you find yourself in an uncontrolled situation And you do not get what you want. Especially if you decide He is a separation, you feel that in that heated state The world is over for you and you feel defeat and frustration He shakes your hand. Believe me, we do not have to try in every situation Correct our habits, behavior, etc., especially In nervous conditions, the function generally deteriorates In any situation you are in, first try to get to the situation The creature has mastered and calmly settled the differences between us Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the problem Consider, if you are interested in continuing your life Whether we are or continue to be friends is important to us Learn to change in difficult situations How to act. Patience and endurance are promising Futures are better and more logical. Sometimes it may continue Some situations improve spouses towards The situation is pessimistic and frustrated. If this frustration still We have not reached the decision of separation, we can pay special attention to The subject of changing the status quo between the two, to awareness Find something new about ourselves and our spouse that they can Help us in our new decision to continue living a good life We may think the other person does not understand the language (sorry) Be. Meanwhile, finally a situation in between That you can make changes to, and
continues