قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

Spouse Challenge 34


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Do not give reasons why it is not possible to do this or you for some reason Or you do not do this because of some background or because of some person When his words are over. Ask him about some Do not ask questions in his remarks. He tolerates no misunderstanding on the part You do not have. Because you have listened well and given consideration Intimacy with your spouse. Remember immediately and Do not promise him at all. You may not be able to do as you say And given your current difficult situation, it may be a problem Do not really notice. So by saying the word eye and reassuring That I will try. Try to bring the status quo back to normal Think a little and if your content was correct and acceptable without To look for the culprit. Review the whole issue for yourself Summarize the content and suggest a conversation the next day. Of course Add a little love and spice to your wish. And content That you have summarized. Express. And if your party is satisfied with the result Catch and design the theme by you, now about the options available Execute, make promises. Finally, ask on your behalf Conversations should be a little restrained and not go to a negative balance. and if The plot raises the issue of defense and the possibility of a new conflict Go. Immediately skip the subject. And please do so this way Continue. To make sure you are arguing and say no you are not. One of the things that helps you is my suggested method Perform better --- do not be between yourself first --- second yourself and your side Do not judge --- Third, avoid speculating about the future Remembering and mentioning the history of such conflicts and repeating behaviors Keep the other person's past in mind. If your side It has a low transmission speed. Let him digest your content You are slow in your speech and in a hurry do. I am very concerned about the issues and problems of ladies who are outdoors They are employed. I'm not in and I'm currently trying to find the ladies To portray the housewife to some extent. Miss after an hour or two The gentleman wakes up and tries to do his homework ...
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Spouse Challenge 33

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If we expect that somehow Special welcome from us is useless. In the first two years of its formation The family, the level of expectations of the man, should be kept to a minimum Do not kiss your lady. Do not bring it on yourself at all. You are him Kiss her and tell her I'm tired. In any situation To the future and the type of behavior of your wife and especially that she to this behavior Get used to it, do not think. Hope you are loving and understanding Ms. Morale can gradually turn both herself and her towards behaviors Be honest and loving, guide One of the most dangerous and frustrating methods in conversations and Arguments and ... the method of balance is negative. Negative balance means You point out a small flaw on the side. And your side Instead of hearing and thinking about that defect, immediately get a defect from It turns you on. And you, without a little patience, one flaw You turn him on. It doesn't take minutes The fault of the sides falls on the circle. And both are angry and possible Is to work in narrow places, to kill. Really if at the time of relaxation think. How is that possible. You are with someone who has it all There is something wrong with living. You will hate yourself The best way if your side for any reason Silence and tolerance. Avoid creating a negative balance do. I know how loving it can be in a situation The size is hard and exhausting, but you yourself first and then Have mercy on your spouse and then on your children and be silent. Simply put, please be deaf. Let the nervous volcano Calm your side. And you relax a little and Re-evaluate the situation briefly and quickly And find your weaknesses and flaws in this encounter And kindly ask your partner to be calm, and in the face Interest if he likes to take his problem with you once again Express and you really listen. Interrupt him Do not disagree with him in critical moments. Reason Do not say that it is not possible to do this or you for some reason
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Spouse Challenge 32


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Now your blood with several types of hormones and the body Which is going through a bad situation. What a reaction Can update? You too if the idiot is almost gentle Be and do not decide. To stretch the subject. Frustrated and upset and hopeless, you sink into yourself And you usually try. Forget the subject altogether Now if you calm down, come together Let's go through these events — you must first have a solid reason Have that reason you can and need to know the problem Outside the home and usually completely, yourself, in the environment Family. Second. You need to know enough about desire and interest and ability Have your spouse and know what his or her reaction will be next Upon hearing this, it will be updated. I write about what happened to me personally. When I was single, I had a 4.5-bullet Diana rifle Two or three days after returning from the honeymoon and settling in I picked up a gun and a shotgun and went hunting for sparrows And I hunted a few sparrows — hunting and eating sparrows and whatever Animals and halal food were not forbidden in our family and were very normal And it was normal. I entered the house and dropped the hunted sparrows On the sink - Suddenly my wife screamed so hard and started to cry. My wife's family loved birds alive Even during the years we lived in Dezful. My wife never Did not allow. That of the sparrows that are there in abundance in the market Cleaned and ready to use. When we enter the house, we should be happy, encouraging and thankful, Let there be an idiot waiting for us. If Ms. Bahr welcomed in any way We love him more clearly and better. If we expect him to be somehow
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Spouse Challenge 31

نتایج ترجمه

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Even if the result of the comparison is in the lady's favor. The impact of movies and series In the spirit of women, in general, their influence on men is different Especially in films that are explicitly or ironically Men's behavior is criticized and slandered. Gentlemen, rest assured After watching such movies and lectures like this in Meetings and parties, you must be under the magnifying glass of women Maybe they recognize a sign of those issues in you. The successful man must know that the weakest and least effective action, Giving verbal guidance and, in principle, directional speech If the man repeats the best educational words for the lady It has very, very little effect. Now if with grievous words Or violent and cold, the man speaks to his account with The scribe is the scribe. Women at different ages have different capacities Of course, men may be somewhat like that, but This difference in capacity is not noticeable in men. Sure gentlemen Be ladies can not reach more than thirty years of age - Boredom-interest-curiosity-and ... about problems and heartache You from the workplace, socio-economic status, welfare, etc. Do not have. Remember that when you say such things You have two types of pain. First, the bitter feelings of events They are revived in your mind. And your existence is inevitably the same The biological reaction, which took place at the time of the accident and Or has the emergence of a thought and ...., repeats again And many hormones are secreted in your blood In disbelief, he realized his situation Cold or indifferent and sometimes Ms. protest You will. Now your blood with several types of hormones and the body Which is going through a bad situation. What a reaction
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Spouse Challenge 30

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Women often find it difficult to distance themselves from their family atmosphere And they will always remember that Baba's house was a paradise. And they usually are In front of their parents, they were free and happy, every day Breakfast - lunch - dinner and he was invited to attend Bring to eat. Of course, sometimes, washing dishes and Sweeping and cooking and helping to entertain guests But in every way, it was dad،paradises house, if not misis They knew what marriage meant, they never agreed to marry Sometimes it is seen that this longing for his father's house, to the end Omar did not abandon women and always lived and existed They have looked at him with contempt. Now this lady girl changes her situation in a short time and She can be a housewife and she has to make a living. Naturally and stress And reacted to the slightest incident Defensive mode takes over. The man of the house must have experience Diversity in your community and work environment. But to this point He does not notice that he could not expect so much from a young lady Be. The man thinks that this woman is legally my wife So he should act according to custom, like a wife. But in fact All the feelings of the lady, influenced by recent events and changes in the living environment Completely messed up and maybe necessary. Man for a long time, to His wife calmed him down and helped him in everything It provided a good mood and atmosphere for him. A man of time Succeeds that, instead of criticizing and judging (even rightly and correctly) In the case of his wife, by understanding her mental and emotional state, behavior Slowly Not at all to the small and superficial behaviors that upset the spouse He did not pay attention to her need to be confident in the new home environment And that her husband loves her, to reach. And in any case, before Find out if the spouse's emotional state and if he or she has It was worry and anxiety or any unusual state. Introduce Subject, refrain. A successful man, never his wife He does not compare with any other woman, especially his mother and sister.
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