Spouse Challenge 39

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. Never doubt and control as a deterrent It does not work well in the couple's behavior and usually makes things worse has done. If your spouse somehow notices your pessimism and doubt or Your control over yourself goes into defense and other relationships You will not have the necessary transparency. Do not judge too soon or rather I say do not judge each other. Be vigilant and confident If a serious failure in your life is caused by your spouse Doubt, control and judgment are not cured. Probably information You are not perfect about your spouse's performance or the problem is so serious You will not be able to solve it in the usual way. Closed head I said. Some of the couple relationships are very wrong and dangerous And is destructive. In this age of male addiction and unfortunately betrayal Some women, in addition to polluting the family environment, the social environment Has also been affected. In these two cases the useful work of Spouses are not made and I personally allow tolerance in these cases I do not know. Due to the fact that women work outside the home in Iran has a long history And especially not codified and the opinions of experts and sociologists In this case it is insignificant so little public information about it There is. But some cases are noteworthy. Working women They have property independence and the majority of them are in the affairs of life They help the family without any expectations. Of course, sometimes they want to Self-paying and wise and kind men in this case in addition to gratitude He never objected to the lady's expense about themselves or their loved ones Rather, they encourage him. These couples go to each other and together They achieve a lot of economic, psychological and psychological success Their children also enjoy a relatively balanced economic situation And they experience good life and good growth. Usually more mothers They like their children to attend extracurricular classes such as language and music ... Participate . It is better for fathers not to worry about such expenses And use this opportunity to get closer to your spouse and children Encourage and thank the mother and child, and absolutely nothing Do not raise another priority in this regard. Let the mother remember Love your child more motivated and stronger for your job To continue. Men in these lives should not count and a century and Do two. He also made part of his secret savings Strictly avoid yourself and be completely transparent with your lady about your income Be honest. I can even recommend women inherently in economics They are more frugal than men. So, if possible, the whole policy Leave the family finances to the women. For the reasons I mentioned earlier in families with problems Small and large may be the housewife who is an employee Do not participate at all in the family livelihood and his own income To spend at will or to save. In this case men never They should not ask their wives for help, and if their income is partial He has expenses by planning and saving and living a happy and peaceful life Continue. The man at the right opportunity to the roots of the problems in Think about marital relationships and eliminate shortcomings as much as possible There is an opportunity for these women to have economic independence That the home environment is calmer. And maybe this opportunity to ...

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Spouse Challenge 38

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A woman to start life in the first stage of relative freedom Lose yourself and then the most important asset of a virgin girl Capital has an uncertain future and is out of the paradise of  father's house Come in front of a dowry that is just a document and the possibility of getting it In times of peace and reconciliation it is almost zero. Another lady girl She does not have single time relationships with her daughter friends and she knows them Which is erased from the memory of friends in a short time. in most cases With the girls are sent impressive dowries that are years old The economy provides for the young family. Sometimes the girl may think What is the need for me to visit my parents and siblings? Get permission from someone. In my opinion, bring girls into new life Far more than boys brought. Now if the man came in and had a job Alimony and livelihood of the lady is not facing problems, but wow On the day when the situation of income and livelihood of the gentleman is messy and weak The biggest and most worthy reward for women, most of whom happen to be from It lasts because it's a beautiful feeling to be a mother. Of course I'm all I did not count the contributions of men and women, but with a careful and deep look We find that a woman's share at the time of material investment And it is much more spiritual at the beginning of life than a man, even if The girl enters the man's life without dowry. Men's work environment can be difficult and exhausting, but usually Not sad and depressed and men with colleagues at the right time They make fun of each other and cheer each other up. But maybe the man in Handicrafts are tired and some are involved in intellectual work. But none It should not be transferred to the housewife and the general condition of the house A man must understand how valuable the expectation of a housewife is And a woman should understand that a man's efforts are due to a man's love and affection for He is. But this understanding is in a sad, tired and bored situation You will never be awkward. Mastering the relationship and softening it And expressing love and affection, especially early in life, is a must Men and sometimes women need to know a few risk factors And the important thing is that their happiness threatens. The first issue is another control Men in particular need to stop controlling things related to women and some Take life items. Women should avoid doubting and controlling their husbands Relationships wash hands. Never doubt and control as a deterrent It does not work well in the behavior of couples and usually makes the situation worse.

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Spouse Challenge 37

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Yes, the fruits of such behaviors may not appear immediately. But at least from The intensity of the say-says decreases. And the path to goodness and goodness It opens and the continuation of this behavior, surely from creating uncomfortable complexes Prevents the future destructive. Let the lady in Be extremely cruel and callous. Cute. And from the ground And time to grieve, slow and you with the artist even bear his insults do. Kill the sweetheart. And love her and know that you are Save your children from many misfortunes. Undoubtedly, marriage and family formation are the most important and biggest events In the life of a girl and a boy. Men have the power to adapt for many reasons With the new conditions more, have. But ladies, less in life Their singleness has undergone changes. And their adaptability It 's down. Now, one or two days after the wedding, the gentleman goes to work And if the lady is a housewife. She stays at home and as before Was at home and alone with an influx of all kinds of thoughts and fantasies and .... She is still waiting for a confrontation with the confidence she still has in her husband She is lively, hopeful and beautiful on the part of her husband Let's calculate what men and women achieved at the time of marriage They bring and what they lose. A man is usually a social prestige and a special personality of married people Gets. Freedom Square and its demands are increasing As the saying goes, the first person lives and has the opportunity to do so Make his fantasies and dreams come true. He is encouraging that Someone is waiting for him at home. And sometimes he remembers that he has to It's to love one person. Apologies to all the ladies From now on, the man has a housekeeper, a cook, and so on He has earned it in return for accepting some commitments. A woman to start life in the first stage of relative freedoms ...

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Spouse Challenge 36

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In my opinion, in the first years of life, the command of life is completely in control Gentlemen. And they are fully responsible for the occurrence of any event And they should know about their possible shortcomings in keeping the center warm The family has great and terrible effects. Which is a glimpse of it before I did. Gentlemen of logic, philosophy and memories, and especially the issue of right and wrong And even the right and wrong topics, fill in the blanks. From confusion Avoid the environment in between. And one word, don't forget the subject at all And imagine. That you have not entered into a common life. More in the time of friendship Ninety percent of the time, unaware of your girlfriend's affairs You were. And for whatever reason, you believed what he said. Quickly towards emotions The time of your friendship returned and the issue of controlling the situation as a whole forget. You are able to control, especially in critical situations you are not. And every moment will cause separation and distance, for reasons Do not pay attention to the problem. Be careful and try to find the atmosphere between and Soften the status quo. Be sure time for a better plan And the more appropriate the subject will be. Most ladies encounter with Critical situations, especially early in life, are so-called locked. But They never admit it themselves. And not you Bring it on them too. The most correct reaction in times Splitting, reassuring yourself and then your wife is still him You love, you still love living with him, more than anything Make sure. That you have no ill intentions or bad judgments about him And you worry that he is upset. And propose together To places you have fond memories of. go. Please go to the parents' house And friends of both sides do not go. To a cafe, restaurant, park Go. Sir, imagine that he has just become interested in this lady and wants her in his heart He should open a place for himself. Recall the initiatives of single time And act. And he should know that it is possible. Generally these actions result in a quick result Do not have. Yes, the fruits of such behaviors may not appear immediately. But at least from The intensity of the say-says decreases. And the path to goodness and goodness

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Spouse Challenge 35

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I am very concerned about the issues and problems of ladies who are outdoors They are employed. I'm not in and I'm currently trying to find the ladies To portray the housewife to some extent. Miss after an hour or two The gentleman wakes up and tries to do his homework Take care. Probably a few phone calls to your family and friends And receive information from family events, hours of his time Fills. At the same time, spend some time visiting the media Collectively, it arrives. This is a daily task, especially the repetition of the situation It may make him less bored. Sir, who is tired and exhausted from She comes home and has expectations. This gentleman from the spirit of the lady who from What factors have affected you so far this morning, unaware or It is careless. On the other hand, a little and a deficit in the reception and reception By the lady and on the other hand, the gentleman's inattention to the mental state A lady who may be affected by bad news from her family, or It is his nostalgia. They get upset with each other and after a while This situation also raises the issue between them. Believe me Quite small and seemingly insignificant factors that are caused by emotions Paradoxical in the presence of weight man. It can cause the accumulation of pain And failures in the minds of both parties. Emotional mismatch Which is usually more visible in women than men. And you do not know Controlling the situation, which is the duty of gentlemen anyway. Causes of annoyance And he feels dissatisfied in their lives. Usually gentlemen at a time Who are interested in a girl. Relying on all kinds of jokes They win the girl's heart. And become friends with him and maybe later with Marry each other. But baby reason, gentlemen after marriage from Such power and attraction and death and distance, distance and all enchantment Lose. It 's really surprising How can a girl's supposedly one or two years after dating and marriage Solve the disappearance of all this feeling in her husband. Before the acquaintance and friendship of the lady girl with a feminine and delicate feeling She cheers on the boy and invisibly attracts him he does. And at the time of friendship with beautiful girly works and attracting each The more a man strengthens the strings of friendships towards himself. To work Get married. Congratulations, but why these arts quickly after marriage And the attractions are forgotten by the ladies. This is a matter for consideration. In my opinion, in the first years of life, the command of life is completely in control Gentlemen. And they are fully responsible for the occurrence of any event And they should know about their possible shortcomings in keeping the center warm The family has great and terrible effects. Which is a glimpse of it before

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