قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

Chash Hamsar 7

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I know that getting all these little things at once Limited to one or two years is not possible. And as many people as possible Is not to look at my point of view favorably I have a simple reason for raising these issues All I have said in many lives after marriage It has caused the couple to harass and resent each other. Some bugs have been fixed in a short time and some Long time later, depending on the importance of the issue or Existing sensitivity causes discouragement and emotional separation Couples, has been. I will give a few examples that I have personally witnessed A woman was very upset by her husband's stinginess and slutty Someone in his wife snoring was in a lot of trouble Cultural differences in a couple's life make it difficult His life and almost divorce has become emotional The relationship of one of the parties who is too close to his family Was and perhaps was somewhat influenced by them to make a living He separated Differences of opinion and beliefs and adherence or non-adherence of one The parties believe in their spouse and do not respect the belief The wife has caused many conflicts To be late and to apologize late or not to apologize at all It can easily erode the roots of a life Bad breath, body and body odors cause constant annoyance to spouses Collect the failures of life and beat it several times It is really a terrible act on the wife So if we get into a serious relationship before Get this information. Insure your life and future We have done Take advantage of opportunities in calls and outings Discuss these issues orally. Of course Conduct the conversation in a way that causes misunderstanding and resentment Don't ... Encourage your partner to ask questions too Ask what you want. If he did not like to ask Tell him about your situation to the extent that he is patient In these conversations, do not try to end the argument and warn and threaten And compulsion is at work. Pay full attention to what you hear Be and do not judge separately throughout the conversation Remember the contents and later in private Remember and judge calmly and fluently and make decisions Please do not make a hasty decision. Some bugs will not be fixed over time Be careful with the type of defects, for example, a person who has narrow eyes and Jealousy and grumbling can not be corrected in any way It is not possible to be a Kurd or a person who is a parliament of votes and full of evil Keep your logical demands on the fence
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Spouse Challenge 6

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What kind of food does he use? Does he use seafood Is a vegetarian Do you know if he snores at bedtime? Is he obsessed with something? He loves his parents and loves them He usually misinterprets others Is he generally cowardly or fearless? Knows swimming or any kind of sport. To what extent does it endure the hardships of the times? He is from a rich family Are tenants or landlords Does he know a foreign language Do you have the power to harass him to assess any of the above? Be sure to learn to annoy him a lot to understand the hidden manifestations of his morals and behavior. Do not apologize for your behavior for now. Be careful of all his words and behavior in times of anger.

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Spouse Challenge 5

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Is his reconciliation time long or short? Which step do you usually take to reconcile? In his next argument, he referred to the subject of previous anger and events Reads and so-called records of your behavior Makes Has he changed his behavior for you? Has he asked you to change some of your behaviors? The extent to which he or she listens and participates in a behavioral project How much was the family? You know how stubborn and stubborn he is His chicken has several legs He is the child of several families Your age distance with him is reasonable and normal In terms of height and height, you are equal and proportionate. He has significant defects such as moles and left eye, warts, etc. on his face Is it full hair or short hair. You have monitored his vision and hearing Does he speak fluently in terms of speech? And does not stutter Does the tic have movement and body When possibly surprised and embarrassed do the hands and feet He loses himself and acts in a hurry Is the person a pointer and a wristband How does he take a stand against your mistakes? Do you accept his mistakes in an acceptable way? And appeases It usually forgives your mistakes quickly What do you think about your work environment and that of your co-workers? Does he intend to emigrate from Iran? He is a reader and reads books and magazines
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Spouse Challenge 4

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How much does he share in the housework with his own parents? Is In terms of wealth, both families are equal Does he have a private room for himself? Is he from mobile games and groups and .... He spends a few hours a day with his mobile phone In response to your request to use less mobile, what is the reaction? it shows Do you have photos and mobile content while you are together? is showing Does he take care of the environment and all aspects in the meetings? He has told you jokes so far How bored he is with his family, friends and acquaintances Has children Have you ever seen him hug a child under one year old? Be sure to talk to her about having children and babysitting Does he have a plan for his future children? Does he talk about them? Is he interested in sudden and usually bitter and painful events? What animal or insect is he afraid of? Did he tell you his dream? He does not dream at all What kind of food does he like? What regions and cities of Iran or abroad have you seen? When studying at a university in a city other than the city of residence of the parents He lived himself Do you know about his relatives and other cities in the country? Is he a quick and warm person and in meetings with others quickly Communicates Is he arrogant and slow-moving and usually hurts others? Does he speak rudely in expressing his own economic situation? Does he drive well and obey the traffic rules? Uses vodka cologne Are his shoes clean and waxed? He is from movies and series and which genre he is interested in What do you think about your neighbors? Will she cry soon? Does it take a long time to calm down after crying Are you aware of the issues that make him cry? Does he welcome your intense and intense expression of interest or He does not tolerate much expression of love and affection Is man auditory or pragmatic? Does it act suddenly and quickly in anger
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Spouse Challenge 3

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How much influence does the family have on him? The tail is temperamental or determined They talk a lot It is mysterious Keep a secret Disruptive and confusing or not Is he a woman who is absent and behind others or not? Is there a parliament and a heating parliament or not? How is his public relations? He is a clean person Are you from reading, poetry and literature? Does he know a foreign language Is it in the past or is it worried about the future? Is he self-controlled and can he control his anger? Did he get attached to you too soon? Is it about steadfast attachment? He is a slanderer and a slanderer May have physical contact when angry The mouthpiece is loose Who have you heard from so far? He is an intelligent person He is from sports and sports entertainment It is easy or strict about the world Does he speak rudely to the taste of the speaker and the other party? He is satisfied with his current and existing life situation With what words and essays does he complain about his current situation? Does he blame others for his current situation? Has the power and power to plan Stick to spilled programs Is the person grumbling and grumbling? Is the person critical and rational? Is it dawn and ready to go? Does the night live Has a balanced and good physical strength There is sagging and curvature in his limbs You have seen the shape of his legs from the ankle down. Beside the sixty feet He is hunchbacked. Is this part of his body in shape at all? Pay attention to her nails. The nails should be smooth and slightly pink Be colorful and regular Does it have neat and relatively white teeth? Sensitive to health standards about yourself and you Does his stomach produce annoying wind? His mood is generally adjusted or sometimes from problems like Complaints of inflammation and heartburn or constipation, etc. Have suffered physical injuries and fractures in childhood and adolescence People for walks and fun and picnics on holidays
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