Spouse Challenge 15

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But in some cases it is really possible for the parties to tolerate There is no such thing as bad foot odor or bad breath. I have a question What have the loved ones who have this problem really done? Whatever I thought, I did not succeed in these two cases Bad feet can be reduced by rinsing, but really bad breath It is a tragedy. Of course, perhaps this problem can really be solved today If so, accept this expense and for sure See your doctor for bad breath Another stable situation is the wife snoring. This problem Not very common in young people, but mature after middle age A man comes. First of all, a donkey is a dangerous person and a sign It has respiratory, cardiovascular and other diseases In this situation, notice the other person is not really small. Snoring people fall asleep early and snoring They start now with their spouse, who may need it early in the morning Go to work or a mother who has to give birth early in the morning Take care of yourself or is tired of constant daily work How desperate he can be with this armpit voice Sleep. Sometimes waiting for a change in a person's situation with false hope He falls asleep that maybe he makes a mistake and his voice is cut off There are some who, if they go to bed They can no longer sleep. So you noticed, continue How much can you tolerate this situation even for three consecutive nights it's impossible. First of all, it is good for treating donkeys See a doctor .. in the next degree if there are possibilities Is separating the bedrooms. Without feeling God Emotional Divorce. This separation is forced and in order to rest And the comfort of the parties. Because it is possible sometimes because Cut off the snoring sound of the side, touch him and Let's wake him up. These awakenings cause discomfort and insomnia He also becomes. So sleeping separately is the best way to overcome It is difficult to come ... of course, some couples because of continuity Snores get used to it and easily with music until morning Donkeys rest. Sometimes both sides of the donkey They say that in this case, the winner is the one who sleeps earlier a slave. Other stable situations concern the body of the person Heart, kidney, and sometimes stomach, liver, and diabetes Complications in the youth of many people are not known, but They appear little after the age of thirty. These complications Do not harass the other party The unhappy person of his sick wife also feels unhappy As a result, the couple's children become sad and upset In such cases, grief and creating a happy atmosphere and Promising helps the parties to some difficulties To deal with existing.If the patient's discomfort is high He may also be impatient and nervous. Then your love and perseverance can help Effectively tolerate him. Because there is no argument in Cases of such complications do not really help the patient recover Therefore, it is possible to adopt peaceful methods of color and smell of life Improve yourself. Anxiety and sometimes frustration of the sick person In many cases, it diminishes life due to its own complication And family members are waiting desperately for death Members of such families are likely to be happy and traveling And do not plan a picnic and do less The duty of older family members is that despite the illness of Do not neglect joyful and hopeful issues and help each other Tolerate the problems of such diseases. A point here I would like to say that in addition to its connection with this issue to the whole Our lives are relevant too .... if you are not able to Find happiness in your home and feel it Nowhere in the world and with no one else able to find You will not be happy. Feel the happiness in the corners of this house that you and Your loved ones are there. Hardships more or less It exists in all kinds of lives. You try too With sacrifice and family privacy a special kind of happiness Find yourself at home. Usually spread diseases In the early and middle stages, there is no need for special nursing They do not have that this is a chance in itself. But the patient because he is aware of his illness every day and Whenever it is necessary to strengthen the spirit in this case A wise and calm wife can remove the stain of sadness from her face Let his wife die with encouragement and love.

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Spouse Challenge 14

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In case of fluid and temporary conditions, sufficient width Now I'm going to talk about permanent situations And let me present some cases. First, I define permanent and permanent complications. All hereditary physical complications Or chronic --- all physical defects of the body such as short stature — left eye Persistent bad breath — and ... we call it persistent conditions Having certain moral qualities such as jealousy — blind prejudice Stinginess --- Narrow-eyedness - Resentment --- Selfishness --- Stubbornness and .. I call it stable mental states In the case of physical defects and complications, it was necessary before marriage We realized them now that for whatever reason these shortcomings exist There is a special solution in our life that you have to think about. If to Divorce and separation because of these shortcomings do not think so should Convince yourself in some way and try to deal with these problems little by little Come along. About the existence of such defects in your spouse Do not feel empty and small and with magnanimity even to your spouse Make sure you accept him in the same situation You will try to feel happy with him And make him really happy..sometimes together and in peace Talk about her physical problems Ask about this ... in front of the comments of others and even himself The case of such failures with courage, strength of heart and love for him Defend. Never let him notice discouragement or boredom You tell her about her discomfort. Tell yourself if there is a place We exchanged with him the way I treat him I behaved. It is important here if time to a good atmosphere And you got it right to really ask yourself this question Do not say that I did it only honestly and calmly And kindly ask him if two people change our place You could have stayed at my feet..please wait for the answer or the reaction Don't be. After a while, say what you stayed or did not stay

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Spouse Challenge 13

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Of course, it is certain that these statements if They are used to make spouses interested in continuing their lives Otherwise, in the case of the decision to separate, I said in this case as well One can decide to separate in a calm state without Raised tensions. Change my suggested status to reach To relative calm and achieve new frontiers of power and competence You and it is enough that you with a little kindness and aspect and thinking Face different situations. Note that the issue of right and wrong has no role in changing situations Raising the issue of rights in a critical situation is helpful No, maybe it will ruin the situation even more. If you want a change Create a situation It should not matter to you who is right Let me give you an example: At noon on Ashura, Imam Hussein (AS) was completely right But having this right did not prevent the neck from being amputated. In all areas The right does not apply much. Maybe if you are right and wrong Go through many solutions that come to your mind. Repeat again There is no way to solve the crisis in the current situation at once does not have . We should only be slow about minor changes in the status quo Let's take action. Sometimes some methods say that we have to take the basic factors Note that this situation has been created. Please pay attention to The factors that make up the situation are the work of specialists. While we took We are currently in an unpleasant situation. So I'm analyzing Existing hypotheses I have suggested perhaps the most practical solution. You In the critical moments of the current situation, it is not necessary to think about the basic factors Keep yourself busy. Better a poor horse than no horse at all Find out and be aware of the creature and then master it with composure and composure Towards doing things that can little by little make the status quo Decide to change and act slowly and with confidence . Let me remind you that your logic, and not at all Logically can not change the status quo. The only way, find the way True to change the status quo. But if you follow logic Miss yourself or basically any rational go precious opportunities You will give. About the need for successive, slow and continuous changes You may need your past experiences, but more work than experience In such cases, your awareness that if you are aware, you can From the signs that are found in the situation, the next way to change continues

Spouse Challenge 12

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You try the current situation First adjust and then in relative calm the decision to separate Express yourself or listen to her decision to separate In the nervous state and difficulty of the current situation Your party will assume your decision out of anger And does not understand it. But if in a better position Tell him your decision, he will understand more Or you find yourself in an uncontrolled situation And you do not get what you want. Especially if you decide He is a separation, you feel that in that heated state The world is over for you and you feel defeat and frustration He shakes your hand. Believe me, we do not have to try in every situation Correct our habits, behavior, etc., especially In nervous conditions, the function generally deteriorates In any situation you are in, first try to get to the situation The creature has mastered and calmly settled the differences between us Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the problem Consider, if you are interested in continuing your life Whether we are or continue to be friends is important to us Learn to change in difficult situations How to act. Patience and endurance are promising Futures are better and more logical. Sometimes it may continue Some situations improve spouses towards The situation is pessimistic and frustrated. If this frustration still We have not reached the decision of separation, we can pay special attention to The subject of changing the status quo between the two, to awareness Find something new about ourselves and our spouse that they can Help us in our new decision to continue living a good life We may think the other person does not understand the language (sorry) Be. Meanwhile, finally a situation in between That you can make changes to, and

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Spouse Challenge 11

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In my opinion, changing individuals, whether in part or in general, is a pressure minister Put them to change possible behavior Or at least I have nothing to do with this analysis I do not have. So our first and second factors will remain unchanged And they can be considered as they are Let's take. But the third factor, which is the "situation", is severe And it can be changed quickly. A skilled wife It is necessary in the face of any situation With the first accurate insight, assess the current situation and keep in mind Find the way to possible changes. Sometimes it is possible Given the history of the previous situation, a good way to Do not reach the mind or be disappointed in any way Be. We must know that some situations continue What happened is impossible and the parties involved They are under a lot of pressure. In this case the person It can not be a complete solution and a decision that everyone End the story, get it. Press the situation at any moment Excess on the brain and nerves is more and more likely This pressure has also affected other situations between us. And destroy them as well. Suppose about the subject a There are problems, but it is possible to continue the conversation and conflict Is the state of mode (b) and even more so And add to the complexity of the subject. At this point one From the parties who feel more in control of the situation And he still has a little peace, he must be confident and walk Take immediate action to make minor changes to the situation Someone who wants to change the status quo needs It has capacity and a little kindness is needed. For conversations It should not be towards the other side. That is, in those difficult circumstances Ask us to think or accept or calm down Take it or, God forbid, say you do not understand - you do not understand --Always the same --- I'm tired - All these statements the current situation We are going to change the situation Not in this difficult opportunity, seeking to change beliefs And be the character and performance of our side. Must be hard and careful Be careful of the current situation and find the nuances And even encouraging the slight changes in the status quo Let's take action. I do not like to make this assumption,

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