قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

قدرت سکوت-The power of silence

A ground for the reflection of new ideas

Spouse Challenge 42

نتایج ترجمه

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At the beginning of the article I mentioned that a fifteen, sixteen year old boy who is in A family living with one of the types of failures Makes it possible with friends who have experience using drugs Experience substance abuse and unfortunately the resulting temporary relaxation Enjoy and continue to use drugs. Sooner or later parents They will realize this. This usually causes conflicts It becomes a family, but later both parents realize that Their loved one is being destroyed and now everyone is trying in some way Find a way to save their child and of course at every opportunity Bites and sarcasm no longer neglect each other. The possibility of saving the child from Addiction is very weak and soon parents notice petting They become the beacon of their child's youth, and in some cases the parents begin They try to blame themselves, but it is clear that these are blames It does not provide a way out for the child. Dear fathers and mothers who You read this before the accident and the destruction of the child First, do not have children until you have reached the right agreement, and if You have a child by visualizing the scenes that I presented from the end of the play And be afraid of conflict in your life. Men definitely have more ability Skip the root of the problem at all. Decide to give up controls Take things in stride and try not focus too much on the problem There is nothing to explain to you, you do not need your spouse Justify and interpret about his tastes and behavior and possibly punishment do. Each couple feels that their spouse is an incomprehensible person And he does not understand. To save himself and his children, he should not be misunderstood Maybe two people who do not understand each other well enough to live better together When high and different understandings take life Hell, and that end is waiting for their children. Is misunderstanding the most worthy Not the solution. Know if you want a gesture in even a little bad situation Get a teacher and try to save the life of the other party with your words You have done the impossible and you will soon be disappointed in all your efforts You will. In previous articles on changing the status quo I have provided details.
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Spouse Challenge 41

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. Maybe they should know that It has been and is possible with a little passing and wise review Relationships There is a possibility of improving the family situation. Maybe some Men and women in this situation are looking for outside pleasures They fall out of the house and may even access authorized entertainment But some have been betrayed and because of their world and the hereafter They give a wrong thought to the wind. One of the requirements of communication of this period and time is to refer to specialists is. Whether a man or a woman is afraid to go to a counselor or specialist And is probably worried about you others should know that Tolerate the continuation of an awkward situation and wear and tear for some The events are serious and refer to an impartial specialist and plan Relationship problems and other problems can help Be. It is a misconception that clients refer to consultants and specialists The psyche is a kind of confession to a mental disorder that needs to be corrected Be. I even say it is necessary about ourselves and inwardly Let us assume that we may also have serious mental problems Have a decision to avoid possible future damages Let's see a specialist. Maybe a couple Be at the beginning of depression and the risk of permanent depression threatens them Slowly Let's decide to help with the best of our ability Professionals exploit and ward off many problems And let go of our spiritual knots. The attitude of others With us, especially our loved ones, the profound effects on our souls are right But we do not have to endure such pain for the rest of our lives Or possibly to get rid of this situation to situations Let's face it hard and destructive. Some failures are possible Make a person hurt himself and his loved ones. man and Or a woman who has been deprived of love for a long time and suffers from it May decide to take revenge in a variety of ways Take action on the unpredictable. At the beginning of the article, I mentioned that a fifteen, sixteen-year-old boy who ...
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Spouse Challenge 40

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And maybe this opportunity to reach Provide the desired situation of the parties. Gentlemen in any case They do not have the right to complain or even sneer at the lady's income and independence Women's economics is a fact and a principle that must be avoided Be safe Working women with economic independence who feel little to They do not live together and have children, especially boys Spend most of this income on your son and take him to you They kill. Enjoying such financial well-being and love for your children It will cause indescribable coldness in the father-son relationship Was. In this case, the man is in severe family isolation He has the least comments, which may be benevolent It has no effect on his wife and children. These children are usually in Their work is not successful. And sometimes mothers have to age Kill such children. This was a serious injury Having a housewife who consumes the separation of father and child is a must Be noticed by women. Personally a few of these guys I know one of them is addicted. I know ladies bored to look closely at how they came about They do not have failures in their lives and relying on a few examples The misbehavior of their husbands for most of their lives Have spent with a sense of anger and hatred and more interestingly in The talks show that we are tolerating the current situation If they are asked why and the child has a reason for this feeling You have kept it in your heart for years and more importantly why this life You go on to have no convincing answer. Maybe they should know that ..
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Spouse Challenge 39


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. Never doubt and control as a deterrent It does not work well in the couple's behavior and usually makes things worse has done. If your spouse somehow notices your pessimism and doubt or Your control over yourself goes into defense and other relationships You will not have the necessary transparency. Do not judge too soon or rather I say do not judge each other. Be vigilant and confident If a serious failure in your life is caused by your spouse Doubt, control and judgment are not cured. Probably information You are not perfect about your spouse's performance or the problem is so serious You will not be able to solve it in the usual way. Closed head I said. Some of the couple relationships are very wrong and dangerous And is destructive. In this age of male addiction and unfortunately betrayal Some women, in addition to polluting the family environment, the social environment Has also been affected. In these two cases the useful work of Spouses are not made and I personally allow tolerance in these cases I do not know. Due to the fact that women work outside the home in Iran has a long history And especially not codified and the opinions of experts and sociologists In this case it is insignificant so little public information about it There is. But some cases are noteworthy. Working women They have property independence and the majority of them are in the affairs of life They help the family without any expectations. Of course, sometimes they want to Self-paying and wise and kind men in this case in addition to gratitude He never objected to the lady's expense about themselves or their loved ones Rather, they encourage him. These couples go to each other and together They achieve a lot of economic, psychological and psychological success Their children also enjoy a relatively balanced economic situation And they experience good life and good growth. Usually more mothers They like their children to attend extracurricular classes such as language and music ... Participate . It is better for fathers not to worry about such expenses And use this opportunity to get closer to your spouse and children Encourage and thank the mother and child, and absolutely nothing Do not raise another priority in this regard. Let the mother remember Love your child more motivated and stronger for your job To continue. Men in these lives should not count and a century and Do two. He also made part of his secret savings Strictly avoid yourself and be completely transparent with your lady about your income Be honest. I can even recommend women inherently in economics They are more frugal than men. So, if possible, the whole policy Leave the family finances to the women. For the reasons I mentioned earlier in families with problems Small and large may be the housewife who is an employee Do not participate at all in the family livelihood and his own income To spend at will or to save. In this case men never They should not ask their wives for help, and if their income is partial He has expenses by planning and saving and living a happy and peaceful life Continue. The man at the right opportunity to the roots of the problems in Think about marital relationships and eliminate shortcomings as much as possible There is an opportunity for these women to have economic independence That the home environment is calmer. And maybe this opportunity to ...
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Spouse Challenge 38


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A woman to start life in the first stage of relative freedom Lose yourself and then the most important asset of a virgin girl Capital has an uncertain future and is out of the paradise of  father's house Come in front of a dowry that is just a document and the possibility of getting it In times of peace and reconciliation it is almost zero. Another lady girl She does not have single time relationships with her daughter friends and she knows them Which is erased from the memory of friends in a short time. in most cases With the girls are sent impressive dowries that are years old The economy provides for the young family. Sometimes the girl may think What is the need for me to visit my parents and siblings? Get permission from someone. In my opinion, bring girls into new life Far more than boys brought. Now if the man came in and had a job Alimony and livelihood of the lady is not facing problems, but wow On the day when the situation of income and livelihood of the gentleman is messy and weak The biggest and most worthy reward for women, most of whom happen to be from It lasts because it's a beautiful feeling to be a mother. Of course I'm all I did not count the contributions of men and women, but with a careful and deep look We find that a woman's share at the time of material investment And it is much more spiritual at the beginning of life than a man, even if The girl enters the man's life without dowry. Men's work environment can be difficult and exhausting, but usually Not sad and depressed and men with colleagues at the right time They make fun of each other and cheer each other up. But maybe the man in Handicrafts are tired and some are involved in intellectual work. But none It should not be transferred to the housewife and the general condition of the house A man must understand how valuable the expectation of a housewife is And a woman should understand that a man's efforts are due to a man's love and affection for He is. But this understanding is in a sad, tired and bored situation You will never be awkward. Mastering the relationship and softening it And expressing love and affection, especially early in life, is a must Men and sometimes women need to know a few risk factors And the important thing is that their happiness threatens. The first issue is another control Men in particular need to stop controlling things related to women and some Take life items. Women should avoid doubting and controlling their husbands Relationships wash hands. Never doubt and control as a deterrent It does not work well in the behavior of couples and usually makes the situation worse.
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